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Make Dating Fun Again I’ve said in the past that today’s dating world is a sh*t show. Countless women tell me that guys are just jerks, they only want sex, and it’s depressing trying to find a life partner. So, let’s put a fun spin on dating. Paula thinks it’s a matter of mindset and if you’re expecting to meet jerks, then the jerks will find you! Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to shift into a positive, growth mindset about dating so you can get curious and confident about the dating process again. Let’s talk about…Make Dating Fun Again Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/
It’s Not Your Looks Men Fall In Love With, It’s THIS Let’s be real…looks absolutely play a part in being attracted to someone. Who catches your eye in person or while scrolling apps? The attractive guy. But looks only open the door to getting to know a person better. After that initial first meeting, getting to know that person’s values and inner workings is what becomes important. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can make our relationships stronger by focusing on the great things about our partners. Let’s talk about…It’s Not Your Looks Men Fall In Love With, It’s THIS Resources: FREE Discover
Men Who Fear Commitment Rarely Reveal THIS I’m joined today by my friend Bob Grant from Relationship Headquarters, who also has 20 years in the relationship sphere under his belt and we’re talking about why the most obnoxious men make such a lasting impact on women. One note: not ALL men are obnoxious; there really are good guys out there whose values and dreams align with yours. Yet all the players seem to get the most attention and then women complain about why they never meet the ‘good guys’. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why some men are gun shy to committing to a woman, especially afte
The BIG Lie About Sex Men Don’t Want You To Know When it comes to discussing sex, men and women are often at opposite corners. Men often look at sex as a way to connect whereas women often need a connection BEFORE having sex. So, how do we meet in the middle, especially if we’re looking for a meaningful relationship and not a one-night stand? Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to encourage emotional and intellectual intimacy over chemistry. Let’s talk about…The BIG Lie About Sex Men Don’t Want You To Know Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– h
A Man Who Shares Your Values Still Might Not Do THIS If you want to attract a man with the same values, it’s imperative that YOU know and understand your own value system. Otherwise, how will you recognize a guy who’s on the same page as you? Also, just because WE think we’re good at something – such as communication – doesn’t mean our partner will agree, especially early on in the dating process. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to discover value systems with a partner and how to improve communication. Let’s talk about…A Man Who Shares Your Values Still Might Not Do THIS Resources: FREE Discover
When A Man Does THESE 4 Things, You’re In A Healthy Relationship This week Paula & I are sharing some of our own experiences and feelings about healthy relationships. As you listen, reflect on your own relationship and if your guy does these 4 things that we reveal. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways couples can be attentive and present in relationships. Let’s talk about…When A Man Does THESE 4 Things, You’re In A Healthy Relationship Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovet
THIS Activity Will Instantly Bond A Man To You We all have ideas of what being in love will feel like but how do we really KNOW until we’re in love? These fantasies get stuck in our heads but when the real thing comes along, oh how wonderful it is! Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to connect and feel deeper emotions with your partner. Let’s talk about…THIS Activity Will Instantly Bond A Man To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http:/
Why Do Some Men Expect To Split The Bill On A First Date? If you’re going out with someone for the first time, why do we call this a date? Seems to me like this is a meeting to decide if you both want to put in the time to date. And why do we still have the expectation that whoever asks for the date should be the one paying? Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why women expect men to pay for dates even though many midlifers live on a fixed income. Let’s talk about…Why Do Some Men Expect To Split The Bill On A First Date? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My V
Say THESE Things and A Man Will Quickly Bond With You We say communication is the basis of a healthy relationship, but what does that really mean? Communication – or discourse – is more than just asking how was your day. We’re talking about getting deeper and having a curiosity about our beliefs and how our belief system came to be. Being curious about how the other person thinks and also being vulnerable enough to answer these questions honestly can raise a relationship to a higher level. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways you can have meaningful discourse with your partner that makes every conver
Men Don’t Care About The Perfect Looking Woman… They Want THIS All of us have some level of insecurity about our looks. Sometimes that follows us from childhood or we develop insecurities from previous adult relationships. But are perfect looks as important in midlife? Sure, we want to be attracted to our partner but looks is only the first level of attraction. Getting to know someone on a deeper level will help you develop a more solid foundation for a relationship. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why searching for perfect looks can prevent you from finding the man of your dreams. Let’s talk
Let's explore the DEEPER ways we can protect our peace and solitude while also exploring a new relationship.
Let's explore the DEEPER ways we can connect with our partners and promote better communication.
Today I'm sharing my 3-2-1-3 advice about how long it should take before meeting someone in person.
Let's explore the DEEPER answers about what constitutes cheating and how to make strong communication a pillar of your relationship.
Let's explore the DEEPER ways women differentiate between a relationship and 'having a boyfriend' and what spurs women to minimize relationships.
Let's explore the DEEPER reasons why casual relationships seem to be more popular than serious relationships in today's dating world.
Let's explore the DEEPER reasons midlife adults have difficulty communicating and defining what type of relationship they want.
Let's explore the DEEPER differences between those who are searching for a fantasy woman and those who are committed to commitment.
Let's explore the DEEPER ways to create clarity about what values are important to you in a relationship and how to communicate those to your partner.
Let's explore the DEEPER ways we can recognize our own shortcomings in finding love and how to change our outlook instead of placing blame on others.
Let's explore the DEEPER ways you can develop a connection via strong communication and a willingness to dive deep into your thoughts and feelings.
Let's explore the DEEPER meaning of being 'all in' in a relationship and what that means emotionally.
THIS Texting Method Will Ruin Your Love Life Texting was NOT designed to build intimacy. It was meant for giving directions and quick answers to questions. And yet many people default to using texting as a way to connect with others. Is this really a desire to connect or is it avoiding the eye contact […]
The First Kiss Is More Dangerous Than Sex Have you ever watched the movie Pretty Woman? In the movie, Julia Roberts (playing a sex worker) draws a boundary about no kissing because that’s too intimate whereas having sex with her clients was not on the same level. Somehow kissing has been demoted over time from […]
Most Men Are Scared To Face Calm Love So many of us equate chaos with connection. We believe that falling in love equals intensity and chemistry. And it’s easy to mistake adrenaline for intimacy. What would happen if you settled into love? In this case, you’re not “settling” in terms of lowering your standards for […]