【本期内容 Episode contents】 在本期的酷儿流水席，我们请到了身在美国加州的四小姐，和我们分享她的跨性别女儿小狮子的故事。从家庭如何接纳和鼓励孩子的性别探索，到如何应对学校生活中的性别转换，再到使用青春期阻断剂的医疗选择，我们看到跨性别孩子在一个友善支持的环境中可以如何茁壮成长。从四小姐的讲述中，我们认识到除了家长的努力之外，这也离不开社会、政策、医疗多方面的支持，而小狮子在获得青春期阻断剂过程中的波折更让我们意识到这样的环境已经是岌岌可危。我们希望通过这期播客增进大家对跨性别青少年议题的了解和关注，如果您有条件，也可以多加关心所在地的跨性别青少年权益相关倡导！ In this episode, Queer Roadside Banquet invited SiXiaoJie (she/her), who shared the story of her trans daughter Little Lion. We talked about how family can accept and encourage a child’s gender exploration, how to navigate the gender transition at school, and the decision to initialize puberty blocker for
【本期内容 Episode contents】 在2026年的骄傲月，我们想聊聊属于酷儿的快乐（Queer joy）。本期节目中，流水席的四位主播分享了各自的Queer joy时刻，也播送了听众朋友们关于Queer joy的投稿。我们聊到了语言与声音、不同地域的社会环境，也给顺直人提供了不请自来的“建议”。在最后，我们也反思了在全球右转的当下，作为离散酷儿怎样通过行动获得尊严和平安。感谢听众朋友们珍贵的投稿，也再次祝大家骄傲月快乐！ The Queer Roadside Banquet 2026 Pride month special episode is about "queer joy". In this episode, our four hosts shared their queer joy moments, and broadcasted the audience submissions we received about this topic. We discussed language and voice, social environments in different countries, and provided unsolicited advice to cis-hetero people. Towards the end, we also reflecte
【本期内容 Episode contents】 这一期，酷儿流水席邀请到沈阳”Twochairz两把椅子”酒吧的店主陶老师，和我们分享这家酷儿鸡尾酒吧背后的故事。我们从具有地域特色的店名，聊到店内环境、酒单和活动中的巧思，以及运营酷儿酒吧在政治环境和经济现实下面临的困难。虽然“二椅子”酒吧无法永久存续，但这个空间带来的酷儿的相遇、聚集和连结却是意义更为深远的。 In this episode, we invited the owner of bar “Twochairz” in Shenyang, Tao (Ta), to share the stories behind the queer cocktail bar. We discussed the interesting name of the bar, the designing of its interior, drinks and events, and the challenges to run a queer bar in China. Although “Twochairz” will not exist forever, the space has brought together queer people and created everlasting connections. 本期由Charlotte, 小蜥
【本期内容 Episode contents】 在这一期中，酷儿流水席的成员聚在一起，从个人经历出发，讨论身边线上线下的“酷儿空间”以及它们正在发生的变化。我们聊到了不同语境和文化中的酷儿聚集地有何不同，以及近年来随着政治环境的变化，线下酷儿空间经历的挤压和衰退。与此同时，我们也讨论了线上酷儿空间的形成和扩散，以及在内容审查、身份验证、平台风险下其所面临的挑战。 In this episode, Charlotte(she/they), Ella(she/they), Kei(they/she), and XiaoXiYi(he/they) sat together to reflect on their personal experiences about queer spaces. We talked about how queer gathering spaces differ across cultural and social contexts, and how many of them have been facing increasing pressure from governments and institutions. We also turn to discuss how online queer spaces have formed and expanded
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期，Ella和Fifi围绕ADHD人如何处理人际关系和参与社群工作展开了讨论。从社会对ADHD人基于优绩主义的规训出发，我们既探讨了ADHD如何公平地负责任从而为自己赋能，也分享了各自所期望的人际环境与社群空间。在此说明，虽然身为ADHD群体的一员，分享者的经历也只代表自身，而不能代表可能有多重边缘身份的其它ADHD群体成员。我们希望以这期节目作为讨论的起点，也欢迎各位听众朋友通过反馈表或社交媒体与我们分享意见。 In this episode, Ella (she/they) and Fifi (she/them) discussed how people with ADHD can better respond to interpersonal conflicts and participate in community work. Although marginalized under the capitalistic society, people with ADHD can still explore ways to empower themselves by taking responsibility with agency, and advocate for a more accessible community sp
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期，酷儿流水席邀请到社群“非二元万事屋”的创始人之一R老师，和我们分享了“非二元万事屋”从建立到成长的故事。非二元性别在简中互联网上是可见度极低的存在，在R老师的分享中我们听到，从入群门槛到社群规则，再到资源分享与互助，聚集这一群伙伴并让ta们感到舒适和安全所需的努力与关怀。 In this episode, we invited R (they/ta), who is among the founders of “Enby WanShiWu”, a Chinese non-binary community. They told the story of creating and growing the community, and shared their experience in building a safe space for non-binary folks on Chinese Internet. 本期文字稿/transcript 本期由Kei, 小蜥蜴共同制作, Charlotte参与剪辑 【时间轴 Timeline】 00:45 嘉宾R老师的自我介绍，和介绍“非二元万事屋”社群 02:54 社群的建立过程：去中心化，不设立门槛，鼓励自由讨论 09:00 “非二元万事屋”名称的来历和指代非二元的”enby”缩写的来历
【本期内容 Episode contents】 今年4月，英国最高法院颁布裁定，判决在平等法案规定下的“性别”均为“生理性别”。这一判决是英国跨性别权益的重大倒退，也对社会多方面的性别政策带来了深刻变化。本期酷儿流水席请到了身处英国、对跨性别议题有深入研究的嘉宾钰珏，与我们解析判例出台后的英国跨性别权利现状。钰珏介绍了最高法院判例的来龙去脉，也梳理了判决对英国的监狱、体育、公共空间几个方面的影响。我们还探讨了反跨法律背后的右翼政治策略，以及在当下的英国如何继续维护争取跨性别权益的空间。 In April this year, the UK Supreme Court ruled that the terms "woman" and "sex" under the Equality Act 2010 refer strictly to biological sex assigned at birth, which is a major setback for trans rights. In this episode, we invited Yujue(she/her), a UK-based researcher on transgender issues, to discuss the current state of UK trans rights following the
【本期内容 Episode contents】 在本期节目中，嘉宾Fifi讲述了自己与跨种族跨世代的酷儿“养父“Steve之间的故事。Ta们在纪念Steve逝去的黑人女权主义者伴侣Naimah的演出上结识，随后相认为chosen family的父女关系。此后，Steve也开始分享自己在70年代的酷儿生命体验，出柜为跨性别女性，并通过创作和表演为跨性别发声。这个故事关于纽约的酷儿历史、老年酷儿的身份探索、以及酷儿之间的世代传承，或许也能给你带来一些启发。 “老头”Steve的Show：Chasing Manhood，将于11/15, 11/22在纽约Balance Arts Center演出，欢迎观看！ 详情和购票链接：https://www.ticketleap.events/tickets/epstein-hassan/chasing-manhood 节目中插入的英文文本及翻译 内容警告：本期含有对性侵的讨论，请关照情绪，酌情收听 温馨提示：节目中“老头”等男性化称呼系嘉宾及Steve本人同意使用，并不代表现身份认同；另外，前五分钟嘉宾的音质有些嘈杂，敬请谅解 In this episode, guest Fifi(she/them) told a story about her relationship with her adopted father, Steve. They
【本期内容 Episode contents】 你有觉得自己“不够酷”的时候吗？本期，流水席的四位小伙伴坐在一起，讨论了我们身上“不酷”的地方。它们或许是对酷儿身份的遮遮掩掩，或许是过于“平凡”的外貌和经济条件，又或许是对酷儿群体充满局限性的评判。我们反思了这些“不酷”背后的社会塑造，以及社群对酷儿表达的单一期待。最后，我们也分享了各自与自身“不酷”之处的共处之道。 Have you ever felt you are not “queer enough”? In this episode, our hosts discussed the “not queer enough” experiences in our past, including hiding queer identities, dull fashion choices, modest economic upbringings, and biases towards other queer people. We reflected the socially constructed “queer” image, and the normative expectation placed upon queer individuals. Finally, we shared our way of making peace w
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期节目是Charlotte对嘉宾Gigi的访谈。Gigi是从台湾移民美国的酷儿，在节目中分享了实践开放式关系几年的心路历程，以及给想尝试非单偶制关系的朋友的一些建议。同时，Gigi也热爱钢管舞，与我们讨论了钢管舞及性工作者的交叉，以及对边缘化群体的意义。 In this episode, Charlotte interviews guest Gigi (they/them), a queer Taiwanese immigrant. They share their experience practicing polyamory for several years and offer tips for people interested in trying non-monogamy. In addition, as a pole dancer, Gigi shares their stance on decriminalized sex work and how pole dancing creates space and opportunities for marginalized communities. 内容警告：本期含有对性体验的讨论 本期由Charlotte主持制作，Kei剪辑 【时间轴 Timeline】 00:45 嘉
【本期内容 Episode contents】 在本期酷儿流水席，Charlotte，Kei，Qihan和小蜥蜴一起带来骄傲月特别篇，接受听众来信提问，拆解酷儿身份中常被误解和忽视的困惑。我们聊了“女同性恋关系里怎么分男女”，“跨性别女性和顺性别女性对‘女性化’理解为何不同”，“顺性别带有另一性别特质与非二元认同的界限”，以及“如何面对被质疑的非二元身份、找到真正安全的社群”。祝大家骄傲月快乐，也希望这期能给你一点点支持和勇气！ In this episode, Charlotte(she/they), Kei(they/she), Qihan(iel), and XiaoXiyi(he/ they) come together for a Pride Month special! We answered listener questions and unpacked some of the most common misunderstandings and overlooked issues about queer identities. Topics include: “Who’s the ‘man’ in a lesbian relationship?”, “Why do trans women and cis women sometimes have different i
【本期内容 Episode contents】 在这期bonus节目，Kei和出厂设置的主播椒盐豆豉讨论了ta在美国科技行业的经历。这是节目的后半部分，我们聊了酷儿和神经多样性个体在职场遭遇的困难，以及关于休假的个人经验。欢迎在“出厂设置”收听本期的完整版！ 【2025骄傲月征集】 在今年，随着全球政治形势的变化，与“性别”和酷儿有关的新闻和议论屡屡登上媒体头版，随之而来的也有假信息和公众对多元性别的种种误解。因此在这个骄傲月，酷儿流水席想和大家一同讨论关于“性别”的迷思或困惑，也想听到来自听众朋友的想法与经验。欢迎点此填写表单给我们投稿，谢谢！ 【时间轴 Timeline】 01:00 跨性别在职场：公司多样性仍然不足 04:30 线下上班的困难：性别错认，厕所问题 08:32 线上也会因声音被错认 11:02 酷儿身份带来了对职场性别气质和性别不公的更多观察 17:01 ASD在职场：很难在办公室工作 20:27 ADA法案所保障的accommodation权利 23:15 选择辞职/休假的原因 30:45 FMLA和Short term disability(STD)休假的程序和不同标准 33:00 STD申请的经验教训 36:50 休假之后的打算 【联系我们 Contact us】 Instagram Mastodon Ko-fi捐助 如有对本期内容的反馈，请填写此表单告诉
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期，流水席的Qihan，Kei和Charlotte一起聊了英剧Douglas Is Cancelled。这是一部关于职场厌女、性侵和取消文化的系列剧集，我们分析了剧中不同性别、不同身份地位的角色形象，也看到剧情背后揭示的社会性别规范和女性所面临的多重困境。我们也从剧集延申，讨论了“取消文化”和围绕这一概念的争议。本期含有大量剧透，推荐观看后收听！ In this episode, Qihan (iel), Kei (they/she) and Charlotte (she/they) chatted about the TV series “Douglas Is Cancelled”, which is about workplace misogyny, sexual assault and cancel culture. We analyzed the characters portrayed by the series, while realizing the gendered social norms and the multifaceted challenges faced by women. We also discussed the concept of “cancel culture” and its surround
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期节目邀请了嘉宾小树进行访谈。小树是一名在纽约从事社工行业的跨性别男性，在节目中与我们分享了他的性别探索过程，在不同社群与场域的经验与反思，和对男性气质的思考。小树也介绍了他的社群工作经历，并且和我们探讨了酷儿在逐渐走向威权和保守的美国如何继续生存。 In this episode, our hosts interviewed XiaoShu(he/him), who is a trans man living in New York. He shared his gender journey, experience in different identity and community cultures, and his thoughts on masculinity. We also discussed XiaoShu’s community work, and how to survive in Trump America. 本期由Kei，小蜥蜴主持与制作 【时间轴 Timeline】 00:47 嘉宾小树的自我介绍 01:08 小树对自己性别认同及性别气质的思考 04:34 小树探索性别认同的过程 08:18 小树讨论根据场合出柜或是隐藏自己身份的“策略性”考量 10:46 在LGB/女性主导的空间也会觉得不安，感到需要证明
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期，我们与长期聚焦大陆跨性别女性群体的记者胡卯聊了聊她最近发布的两篇文章：泰國——中國跨性別的應許之地，B站、推特與跨性別醫療：中國青少年藥娘的生存之旅。我们就文章中涉及的大陆跨性别女性所面临的困境展开讨论，也请胡卯老师分享了“站在社群中”写作的宝贵经验。 胡卯也希望通过本期节目征集受访者，欢迎有兴趣的听众通过邮箱woodstockkyoung@gmail.com联络！ 声明：本期内容仅个人观点，不代表社群共识或所讨论文章中的受访者态度 内容警告：含有对性行为、恐跨暴力、性骚扰等话题的讨论 This episode features guest Hu Mao (she/they), a journalist focusing on the transgender community in China. In recent months, she has published two articles in The Reporter and Initium Media, which garnered significant public attention. In this episode, we discussed the specific challenges faced by the Chinese transfem commun
【本期内容 Episode contents】 在2024的最后，酷儿流水席的新老成员（Kei，夏洛特，小蜥蜴）聚在一起录了一期氛围检查，和大家聊聊节日、选举、播客制作等话题。我们也分享了一年来各自记忆深刻的酷儿瞬间，和想要推荐的书影音内容。不论你身在何方，酷儿流水席的全体成员祝大家能度过一个安心舒适的年关，我们明年再见！ 2024 is coming to an end, and the current staff of Queer Roadside Banquet: Kei(they/she), Charlotte(she/they), and XiaoXiYi(he/they) got together for a vibe check session. We chatted about the holiday season, the US presidential election, and podcast production. We also shared the notable queer experiences this year and our book/movie/podcast recommendations. The staff at Queer Roadside Banquet wish everyone a safe and restful holida
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期节目中，第三期的老朋友拉皮和Kei一起邀请到了夏夏和啵啵茶两位嘉宾来分享她们的PLP（Platonic Life Partnership/柏拉图式人生伴侣）关系。两位嘉宾讨论了如何打破社会对亲密关系的传统定义，并通过沟通建构起这种非爱情非友情的亲密关系模式。 In this episode, LaPi(they/them) joined Kei in inviting Xiaxia(she/her) and BoBoCha(she/they) to share their Platonic Life Partnership (PLP) relationship experience. The two guests discuss how they break down amatonormativity and construct their own definition of a non-romantic intimate relationship through communication. 本单集由夏洛特参与剪辑，Chris参与shownotes制作 【时间轴 Timeline】 00:27 拉皮与嘉宾啵啵茶和夏夏的自我介绍 01:21 啵啵茶和夏夏的PLP关系：什么是 PLP？如何接触到并尝试这种关系？ 03:34 同居的摩
【本期内容 Episode contents】 茴香与激光猫和波浪两位嘉宾分享了作为酷儿参与户外活动的经历，也讨论了酷儿身份与户外活动文化之间的互动。从隐藏在户外运动中的消费主义和精英主义，到户外空间中也存在的性别规范，酷儿在参与户外活动时也有种种顾虑。但同时自然也消解了压力和孤独，让酷儿们感到包容和接纳。 流水席在这里也向广大听众征集对节目制作的提议，如果有想参与内容制作的朋友也请积极通过社媒私信或者邮箱与我们联系！ In this episode, Fennel(she/her) joined LaserCat(she/her) and BoLang(he/him) to talk about participating in outdoor activities as queers, and the interaction between our identities and the male-dominant outdoor culture. From consumerism and elitism hidden within outdoor activities to the gender norms of outdoor spaces, queer participants have concerns to voice. However, nature relieves
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期节目邀请到了嘉宾苏林，ta自我认同为非二元酷儿，也信仰天主教。Ta分享了自己在性别认同和宗教信仰两方面的探索旅程。我们还探讨了社会的性别规训和对华人教会的观察，反思了基督教与性别保守主义的合流。苏林也谈到如何将个人作为桥梁，连接酷儿与基督教两个不同的社群。 In this episode, Sulin (they/them) shared their journey of finding non-binary identity and Catholicism faith. We also discussed gender roles, Chinese-language churches, and the Christian right-wing movement. Sulin hopes they can serve as a bridge between the queer and the Christian community, helping foster connections and mutual understanding. 本单集由夏洛特参与剪辑 【时间轴 Timeline】 00:46 嘉宾苏林的自我介绍与身份认同 01:11 从小学开始探索自己的性别认同：指派性别与理想中的自我形象之间的冲突 06:50 在社交媒
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期是对嘉宾Aqueer的访谈第二期。Aqueer有丰富的社会运动参与经验，帮助我们解答了关于取舍议题、面对失败、处理冲突的困惑。Aqueer也与Host交流了对巴以冲突的看法，以及巴勒斯坦议题与酷儿身份之间的关联。从当下的社会事件出发，我们也延伸讨论了离散身份和对故土的复杂情感。 In the second half of our interview with Aqueer(any gender-neutral pronouns), they shared their rich experience in activism and community work. We discussed how to allocate time, face challenges, and deal with conflicts as participants in social movements. Aqueer also explained their view on the war in Gaza and its connection to queer issues. The conversation also led us to discuss our complex attitude toward “homeland” as immigra
【本期内容 Episode contents】 我们邀请了Aqueer作为嘉宾，开启了为期两集的系列访谈。在第一期内容中，Aqueer分享了ta对酷儿身份的认知过程，以及在纽约医疗系统中的就医经历，尤其是进行嗓音治疗的经验。拥有多个chosen family成员的Aqueer也分享了自己与家人相处的经历，和对于chosen family这种关系形式的理解。也请关注在下一期与Aqueer的探讨！ This is the first half of our interview with guest Aqueer(any gender-neutral pronouns). In the first episode of the series, Aqueer shared the process of recognizing their queer identity, and their experience of accessing New York's healthcare system, particularly the process of voice therapy. Aqueer also shared their insights on chosen families and interactions with family members with generational
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期是对嘉宾Ashton的访谈。Ashton是一位流动性别者，也曾是内地某高校彩虹社团的参与者。ta坦诚分享了其漫长的自我探索之路，也回忆起参与和组织彩虹社团过程中的点滴。我们希望，通过记录这些细腻复杂的个人故事和保存已逐渐远去的社群记忆，带来新的共鸣和思考。 Our guest, Ashton (they/them), who is genderfluid, shared their reflections during their journey of self-exploration. They also discussed the difficulties of organizing an LGBTQ+ student group on a university campus in mainland China. 本单集由夏洛特参与剪辑 【时间轴 Timeline】 00:43 本播客成立以来最长的自我介绍；低频率的性别流动 02:30 从幼儿园就不喜欢外界对性别角色的期待，但探索和接纳自己的性别经历了漫长旅程 07:39 具体的人赋予性别标签明确的意义；多元化的性别标签给自我表达增加了选择 12:46 考虑过改变自己的部分生理特征，但对医疗资源的可获取性、修改证件的相关规定和手术创伤有犹豫 18:00 理想条件下的身体——青
【本期内容 Episode contents】 骄傲月快乐！本期，Kei和茴香在收集了听友们的投稿后，讨论了友善语言(Inclusive Language)。在节目中 ，我们探寻了性别包容的称呼、反思了常见话语中的刻板印象、也看到了语言使用中的诸多微妙和复杂之处。语言看似是一件小事，但性别相关的语言却无处不在，切实影响着酷儿们的生活。这个六月，在庆祝之余，我们也想呼吁大家关注友善语言，为多元性别群体创造一个更加包容的环境。感谢参与投稿征集的朋友们，以及半年来收听和支持我们的各位听众！ Happy pride! In this episode, Kei(they/them) and Fennel(she/her) talked about inclusive language after collecting messages from our listeners. Topics include: gender-inclusive appellations; stereotyping in common language patterns; the often difficult work of community inclusion. Plus: cats don’t know gender rules, and all names are equally “real”. Than
【本期内容 Episode contents】 近两年，海外华语酷儿女权脱口秀欣欣向荣。本期嘉宾毛线跟Kei和茴香齐聚一堂，三人一起聊了作为脱口秀演员登台表演，以及参与喜剧社群的感受。酷儿的生命中有许多结构性不平等所带来的创伤体验。笑声为我们赋能，但并不是疗愈的万能灵药。喜剧社群需要更多元的表达，以及长远细致的维护。 The scene of Chinese-language queer feminist comedy has been growing quickly overseas. In this episode, 3 performers (guest MaoXian(she/her), hosts Kei(they/them), and Fennel(she/her)) from different open mic events chatted about their experience performing comedy and participating in the community behind these events. Laughter brings us empowerment, but it's not the panacea for our trauma resulting from structural inequalities. 本单集由Cha
【本期内容 Episode contents】 本期，茴香、Kei和嘉宾咸鱼，三位神经多样性酷儿聚在一起，聊聊我们和自己ADHD、ASD身份的故事。我们分享了各自的诊断经历，神经多样性身份给自身心理和生活带来的改变，也讨论了神经多样性与酷儿概念之间的连接。希望我们的分享能够成为你了解自己或身边神经多样性人士的一个机会。 节目内容为个人经历和观点，不代表专业医学建议。 In this episode, 3 neurodivergent queers, Fennel(she/her), Kei(they/them), and guest Xianyu(she/they) sat together and chatted about our ADHD/ASD identities. Topics include: Our experience with the diagnostic process; what changed after obtaining the diagnosis; how we build our neurodivergent lives. Plus: Why we need to talk about neurodiversity as queer people. 本单集由Charlotte Zhao参与剪辑 【时间轴 Timeline】 01:35 自我介绍和各
