The MatchNet Podcast is a podcast just for singles who want to prepare well for marriage, who want to focus on being the right person, and then finding the right person. It’s also for people who have no idea where to start in the Matching Process or what the Blessing is all about.
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Benjy has shared about the Blessing for years, but has never fully shared why. In this episode, Benjy tells the real story behind it – the struggles, unexpected turns, and moments that made him realize this isn’t just something he talks about… it’s something he’s given his life to. If you’ve ever wondered what the Blessing really means, this is for you.
True Mother’s suffering feels heavy right now. But this is not the time to pause the mission — or your Blessing. In this episode, Benjy shares a dream and a message for singles who feel discouraged but are called to stay faithful.
Benjy shares two habits that changed everything—and could make this year your best ever.
Attraction isn’t just about looks—it reveals what men and women truly value. In this episode, Cathy & Benjy dive deeper into what each gender is actually looking for in a spouse, where modern culture gets it wrong, and how clarity around attraction leads to healthier, God-centered relationships.
How much should attraction play a role in the matching process? On the surface, it seems important. But how important should it be? Cathy & Benjy dive deep into this critical topic.
Feeling stuck or overwhelmed on your Matching & Blessing path is more common than you think. In this episode, Benjy offers the compassion we need when the journey feels heavy and also the courage required to keep walking in faith. If you’re wrestling with the urge to give up, this conversation will help you see your struggle with new hope and confidence.
Marriage is hard at times. But if you keep walking, your Blessing can become incredible. In this episode, Benjy shares about overcoming the “hump” and finding joy through unconditional acceptance.
Marriage is hard at times. But if you keep walking, your Blessing can become incredible. In this episode, Benjy shares about overcoming the “hump” and finding joy through unconditional acceptance.
Benjy shares from the heart in this raw episode on the real struggles and victories of an international Blessing.
Still unsure about the Blessing? You’re not alone. In this episode, we walk through 3 simple steps to help you get clear about your beliefs.
Not 100% sure you’re ready for the Blessing? In this episode, Cathy & Benjy talk about how much faith and understanding you really need before saying yes—and why perfection isn’t the goal.
Watch Benjy’s full presentation on "Why Not 2026?" here https://youtu.be/2FPzfzz2pT0 Struggling to feel ready for the Blessing? In this episode, Benjy shares the first essential step to prepare your heart, clear your conscience, and move forward with confidence in God’s plan.
How do you bring up past mistakes during the matching process? In this episode, Benjy breaks it all down in a 3-step process.
Navigating crushes is one of the most difficult things that single people face when preparing for the Blessing. Benjy help illuminate this topic with perspective and experience.
Benjy dives into the hardest question in the matching process: “Is this really the one?” Here's how to find clarity, not by overthinking, but by having the one conversation that might change everything.
If you want God to work through you in your life, it starts with letting go. Benjy outlines helpful reasons to let go of control and let God work.
Benjy and Cathy share deep insight on parenting in this episode. Whether you have kids or not, there is such wisdom that we can all benefit from and that can help in the raising of the next generation.
Benjy gives a helpful exercise to figure out what is blocking you from moving toward your Matching & Blessing.
As the Blessing approaches, Benjy shares a message to parents who are looking to encourage their adult children to participate in the Blessing. Words from True Father: https://www.tparents.org/Moon-Books/sm-gww/GWW-02.htm
