Life Without Bookends

Life without Bookends is for women navigating those moments when life changes in ways we did not expect. When a relationship ends, when a beloved career crumbles, or something in us wakes up one day and realizes that the life we’ve built no longer fits. This is a conversation about what becomes possible when you stop trying to rebuild the old life and start trusting what wants to emerge.

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Episodes 12

Breaking from the Tribe
2d ago · 37:53
Breaking from the Tribe - Losing the Roles and Finding Yourself with Gladys Morales. After cancer and significant vision loss, and a life that refused to follow the expected script, Gladys discovered that resilience is not about returning to who you were. It's about it's about discovering who you can become. In this Episode: - The questions her break from cultural traditions gave rise to: Who am I, who am I really? - What it has meant to root herself into her real essence, not the person that she was told she should be. From 'good girl' to sovereign, as herself. - The cost of breaking away...
The 10% Rule – And Other Money Myths
19d ago · 7:22
Raven talks about some of the money ‘rules’ that many wealth 'gurus' hand down like gospel. And the way these rules often stop people from doing anything. For example, if you don't have the 10% to put aside each month to 'go to work for you,' what then? She shares from her own experience and points to something most financial guidance doesn’t account for: the stress that the continual pursuit of more creates. - How she finally dealt with her debt - and the strange fear she exprerienced at the thought of zero debt. - How money apps can hide what we don’t want to face.
The Pressure to Prove
1mo ago · 7:53
The Pressure to Prove, or Improve. Who said you should? What if the words we use every day are shaping decisions we think we're making freely? In this episode of Life without Bookends, Raven explores two of the most loaded words in our cultural vocabulary: prove and improve. She unpacks the difference between improving your skills and improving your being, what it costs us in our bodies and our decisions to live as if we're not yet enough, and what becomes possible when we stop performing for approval and start trusting the path that was always ours. This episode connects to Raven's card deck,
Bye-Bye Corporate
1mo ago · 25:13
In this episode, Bye-Bye Corporate, I talked with Deborah Stephenson about what it was like to leave her corporate career after 40 years, not to retire, but to start something new. Said Deborah about approaching the decision moment: "And so it was a really, really frightening, awful moment at that time because ... I felt pretty trapped at that point because I was like, at my age, if I leave here, I'm going have a difficult time finding another job. And it's probably going to be the same job. It's just a different company. So I knew that was probably not the right solution either. That was more
On Resistance and Procrastination
1mo ago · 4:26
On Resistance and Procrastination: Intelligence or Something to Overcome? Life is perfect sometimes. I planned a different episode and recorded it 3 times only to realize it wasn't happening. Either the time for it was off, or it's not meant for me to record. Some things are simply 'good ideas' with no energy to back them up. Resistance and procrastination are only problematic when we're fixated on the plan - the timeline and goals. Otherwise, I assert that there IS an intelligence worth paying attention to. I wonder what your experience is with these 2 words? When you notice yourself feeling
The Challenge of Being Yourself
2mo ago · 3:33
The Challenge of Being Yourself: How 'weird' do you allow yourself to be? We all want to 'be ourselves,' yet we live in a world where fitting in to get along ofter supersedes that real drive. Some people go in the other direction - seeming to exaggerate their weird. Others, such as some of those among us who are neurodivergent, can't help but be themselves. No answers. Just questions: How 'weird' do you allow yourself to be? Interested in the transcript Raven mentioned, from The Challenge of Being Yourself? Visit https://thisravensview.com/the-challenge-of-being-yourself
What Are Life’s Bookends?
3mo ago · 5:42
In this episode I offer additional insight into what I mean about “Life without Bookends.” And what can happen when they fall by the wayside. Life contains obvious bookends, such as one’s relationship or marriage, parenthood, school, and one’s job or business. But, what about the more subtle bookends embedded in the vocabulary of our culture, and the hand-me-down beliefs that unknowingly shape behavior? Which did you recognize and which surprised you? Are you on Substack? I wrote a personal postscript to this episode. https://lifewithoutbookends.substack.com/p/what-are-lifes-bookends
Introducing Life without Bookends
3mo ago · 1:34
Life without Bookends is a podcast about what happens when the structures we've relied on begin to loosen or fall apart. When a relationship ends, a beloved career crumbles, or something in us wakes up one day and realizes that the life we’ve built no longer fits. This is a conversation about what becomes possible when you stop trying to rebuild the old life and start trusting what wants to emerge.
Podcast Name Change
3mo ago · 1:49
A short clip to explain why, after only three episodes, Money and Life Shifts is now Life Without Bookends.
When a Marriage No Longer Fits
4mo ago · 7:06
When a marriage no longer fits, it might not be weird. It might even make sense. This episode was originally recorded in late 2021, a few months before my divorce date. I found myself feeling vulnerable and afraid, alongside the contrasting awareness that this was the right move. From the Episode - When a marriage no longer fits When the walls of that container became smaller and smaller, I was quite ready to free myself. And then as I got closer, and even now that the divorce is just a few months around the corner, it's getting louder in here like… Oh no, where's my security? I mean, it's wha
Rethinking Purpose – Is it Enough to Just Be?
4mo ago · 5:19
In this episode, Rethinking Purpose - Is it Enough to Just Be? - I briefly explore what gives us our sense of purpose, and the motivation behind it. Purpose is often tied to what we're doing in life, or what we're giving in life, basically anything that we're engaged in that makes us feel like we have purpose. When I recorded this, I was thinking back to a time when I was doing work that I really loved doing. And I wondered if this podcast is, in part, me looking for joyous purpose again. Purpose and Life Shifts Significant life transitions often have the effect of stripping away an establishe
Money – The Myth and the Math
4mo ago · 5:44
When life shifts… what happens to our relationship with money? In episode, Money - The Myth and the Math, I begin exploring the role money plays in how we orient our lives, and what happens when that foundation changes. In this episode: Why we tend to organize our lives around money How life transitions change our financial reality and identity The idea that “more” is not always the answer Money as both myth and math A different way to think about capacity, spending, and stewardship Listen in, and notice what resonates… or doesn’t.

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